Teaching Consent to Kids: The Book List for Every Age (Plus Adults)
Teaching Consent to Kids: The Book List for Every Age (Plus Adults) If you’re wondering how to teach consent to your kids—or realizing you never learned it yourself—you’re not alone. Most of us weren’t taught true embodied consent growing up. We learned to hug relatives whether we wanted to or not. We learned that other […]
Why Do I Want Sex So Much (Or So Little)? Understanding Your Desire
If you’re dealing with a desire discrepancy, you probably think you know what you want: more sex, or less sex. But here’s what I’ve learned after years of working with couples—there’s so much more under the surface. And that information is gold for figuring out the way forward together. Most higher-desire partners think they just […]
Top 10 Mistakes People Make with a Desire Discrepancy . . . (and What to Do Instead)
After years of working with couples on mismatched desire—and recording 100 episodes of my podcast on this exact topic—I’ve noticed something: the same patterns show up over and over again. These aren’t random mistakes. They’re strategies that make perfect sense in the moment. You’re scared. You’re desperate to fix things. You’re using the only tools […]
78: When Touch Feels Off: Why It Happens & How to Fix It
Send us Fan Mail Have you ever been with someone you love, but their touch just felt… wrong? Or maybe your partner has told you that YOUR touch feels off, and you have no idea what you're doing wrong? I'm diving deep into this incredibly common issue that so many couples face but rarely talk […]