How we are socialized by gender has a lot to do with our sex & relationship patterns as adults.
Everyone is unique, but themes often show up along socialized gender lines. Results my clients get regardless of gender include:
Finding & owning your sexual confidence & unique turn-ons
Overcoming desire mismatches in couples
Age-related changes to sexual performance & interest
Learning to communicate well & solve resentments
Overcoming religious shame & inhibition
Enjoying sober sex
Dating and choosing partners, including post-divorce
Other goals & challenges tend to be gendered. See below for some common results cis-gendered women and men get in our work together. Aspects of both lists often apply for non-binary, intersex, and trans clients, plus additional challenges like body dysmorphia, dating, safety, and disclosure. I help people navigate those too.