When a desire gap is destroying your connection

Here’s what most people don’t know about desire gaps:

• They affect 80% of couples—you’re not alone
• Without the right approach, nearly all gaps get worse
• They are a leading cause of divorce
• Most therapists lack specialized training in desire issues
• Medical providers can’t address the emotional and relational aspects
• Hormone prescriptions rarely solve it 
• With the right help, these issues are highly solvable
• Even one partner making changes can transform the entire dynamic

That’s exactly why desire coaching exists. I work with individuals and couples to close the desire gap—even when only one person is ready to start.

I’m Dr. Laura Jurgens, Desire and Arousal Specialist and host of The Desire Gap Podcast.

I help couples close the desire gap through The Desire Gap Bridge™ Method—a somatic, body-based approach that gets you out of your head and into connection.

The Desire Gap Bridge™ Method:

• Works with both partners equally—no blame, no shame, no pressure
• Uses proven, body-based techniques (somatics, not just talk therapy)
• Gets you on the same team quickly
• Effective whether you’re the low-libido or high-libido partner, even if you start alone
• Gives you the intimacy and communication skills you were never taught

I’ve helped hundreds of individuals and couples transform desire differences from a source of pain into opportunities for deeper intimacy. I also train therapists and coaches who want to better serve their clients with desire issues.