105: The 1-minute body practice that unlocks what you actually want sexually
Send us Fan Mail Before you can solve your desire gap, you need to know what you actually want. This super simple, somatic practice helps you stop overthinking sex, connect to your body's truth, and find the safety you need to access authentic desire. Whether you want more or less sex than your partner, self-attunement […]
104: ADHD & Desire Gaps, Part 2: How to stay present during sex
Send us Fan Mail Part 1 in this series covered how ADHD affects desire. Now let's get practical. Mid-sex, suddenly thinking about work emails and grocery lists? Your partner can tell you're not fully there . . . and it doesn't feel great to you either. You're not a bad lover, your ADHD brain is […]
103: Why “love should be effortless” is ruining your relationship
Send us Fan Mail You've been sold a lie: that if your relationship needs work, something is fundamentally wrong. That love should just happen naturally if you're compatible. That needing help means you're failing. This myth keeps people stuck in mediocre relationships, avoiding problems, and thinking they're failures when they struggle. And it's complete bullshit. […]
Why ‘Love Should Be Effortless’ Is Ruining Your Relationship
I’m going to ask you something that may be uncomfortable: What are you willing to invest in your most important relationship? I’m talking about real investment. Time, money, effort, and attention. The whole deal. That’s what “doing the work” actually means. And I know some of you are already thinking: “Laura, shouldn’t love be free? […]
102: Why do I want sex so much (or so little)? Understanding your desires
Send us Fan Mail If you're dealing with a desire discrepancy, you probably think you know what you want: more sex, or less sex. But what I've learned is this: there's always more under the surface. And that information is gold for figuring out the way forward together. If you're the higher-desire partner, what are […]
Why Do I Want Sex So Much (Or So Little)? Understanding Your Desire
If you’re dealing with a desire discrepancy, you probably think you know what you want: more sex, or less sex. But here’s what I’ve learned after years of working with couples—there’s so much more under the surface. And that information is gold for figuring out the way forward together. Most higher-desire partners think they just […]