Most of what’s out there on sex and intimacy is either clinical and cold, or vague and woo. This blog is neither. It’s research-backed, body-based, and written for people who are done performing and ready to actually understand what’s happening — in their bodies, their relationships, and a culture that hasn’t exactly set them up to thrive.
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There’s a version of BDSM negotiation that gets taught as homework: sit down with a checklist, compare your yes/no/maybe lists. Maybe you even write up
Teaching Consent to Kids: The Book List for Every Age (Plus Adults) If you’re wondering how to teach consent to your kids—or realizing you never
I’m going to ask you something that may be uncomfortable: What are you willing to invest in your most important relationship? I’m talking about real
If you’re dealing with a desire discrepancy, you probably think you know what you want: more sex, or less sex. But here’s what I’ve learned
If you’re the higher-desire partner, this one’s for you. When your partner says no to sex and you immediately spiral into “they don’t love me,”
Let me be direct about this: If you’re having obligation sex, you are harming yourself and your relationship. I know that sounds harsh. And I
