106: Too tired for sex? How burnout kills desire, with Dr. Amy Grimm

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When you're running on empty, sex feels like just another demand on your already depleted system. But burnout isn't just affecting your work life—it's killing your desire and disconnecting you from your partner.

Dr. Amy Grimm, veterinarian and certified burnout coach, joins me to explore how chronic stress impacts intimacy. We discuss what both high and low desire partners need to know, including: 

  • Why burnout is a nervous system problem, not just a work problem
  • How to tell if you're burned out vs. depressed
  • Why sex becomes performative when you're disconnected from yourself
  • The micro-moment practices that actually restore your nervous system (no hour-long meditations required)
  • How to reconnect with your body so you can reconnect with your partner

If you suspect burnout is affecting your relationship or libido, this conversation will help you understand what's really happening—and give you simple tools to start healing.

Resources: Free video series: The Burnout Fix – https://burnoutfreeme.kit.com/burnoutfix Amy's podcast: Burnout-Free Me – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/daring-dvm/id1685789557 Website: https://daringdvm.com

Get my free guide: Get Out of Your Head: A Starter Guide to Releasing the Pressure, Shame, and “Shoulds” Around Intimacy at https://laurajurgens.com/guide

More links:
Substack at https://laurajurgens.substack.com/

Pleasure Path Diagnostic here: https://laurajurgens.com/diagnostic/

About me, testimonials, blog, bookings: https://laurajurgens.com/

Wheel of Erotic emotions, go to: https://laurajurgens.com/wheel

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Meet Laura Jurgens, PhD
My approach is research-backed, body-based (somatic), and explicitly inclusive of all genders, orientations, and relationship structures. I developed The Pleasure Path Method™ from years of study and practice — and it works whether you’re starting alone or with a partner.