The Pleasure Path Diagnostic
What's blocking your pleasure is specific to you. So is the path through it.
The Pleasure Path Diagnostic gives you a clear, personalized map of what’s actually in your way — and what it will take to get where you want to go.
A private conversation with a specialist who has reviewed your personal situation first.
This isn’t a quiz that spits out a “type.” It’s a deep-dive intake that I review personally, followed by a private 45-minute call — just the two of us — where we go through your specific situation together.
You’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s operating beneath the surface, and what the real path forward looks like for you.
Whether or not you decide to work with me after that is entirely up to you.
Who this is for:
This is for you if:
- → You’ve done the therapy, read the books, tried the mindset work, and something still isn’t moving
- → You’re in a relationship where desire has become complicated, absent, or a source of tension
- → You have a sense that something is off in your intimate life but you can’t quite name what it is
- → You’ve tried to figure this out on your own and you’re ready to stop guessing
- → You’re the kind of person who, when you decide to solve a problem, you want the right information — not more general advice
What you get:
Step 1: The Questionnaire
After booking, you’ll receive a link to the Pleasure Path Diagnostic questionnaire. This is not a standard intake form. It’s a structured, in-depth exploration of your desire patterns, nervous system responses, relational dynamics, what you’ve already tried, and what’s been getting in the way. Plan 30–45 minutes to complete it thoughtfully. I review every answer personally before we speak.
Step 2: The Call
We meet for 45 minutes on Zoom. I’ve already read your questionnaire, so we don’t spend the call on basics. We go deeper — into what the patterns mean, what’s driving them, and what the most direct path forward looks like for your specific situation.
Step 3: Your Map
You leave the call with a clear picture of what’s actually operating in your intimate life, and a concrete sense of what will and won’t move it. Not general advice. Not a worksheet. A real conversation with a specialist who has spent years working with exactly this.
If working together seems like the right fit, I’ll tell you what that looks like. If it doesn’t, I’ll tell you that too. No pressure, ever.
WHAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH
Clarity on what’s actually in your way — not the surface story, but the underlying patterns driving it
A realistic path forward — what the work actually involves, what it requires, what to expect
Honest assessment — if what you’re describing isn’t something I can help with, I’ll tell you that and point you somewhere more useful
The end of guessing — no more wondering if you’ve found the right approach or if you’re just missing information
“If you think about the amount of money people spend to feel sexy — buying things, trying to change the body, covering up the body — and then compare that to investing in a coach who can help you access what’s been getting in the way… it just makes sense.” — Lisa P., dentist and life coach
This is not for you if:
I want to be direct about this, because your time and mine both matter.
This isn’t the right fit if you’re looking for a quick quiz with automated results. The Diagnostic process requires genuine reflection. Results are personalized because your challenges are personal ones.
It’s also not the right fit if you’re in an active mental health crisis, or if you’re currently working with serious diagnoses like bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, or personality disorders. Those affect sexuality in a way that means they require specialized clinical support that sits outside my scope.
And if you’re not ready or willing to look honestly at what’s been happening — that’s okay, but this isn’t the moment for the Diagnostic. It’ll be here when you are.
About Laura
Laura Jurgens is a Somatic Sex & Intimacy Specialist with a PhD in biological sciences from UC Davis and certifications from the Somatica Institute®, the NeuroAffective Touch Institute, and the Life Coach School. She has worked with individuals and couples navigating desire, intimacy, and attachment for years, and hosts the Pleasure Uprising podcast.
Her work is research-backed, nervous-system focused, and explicitly inclusive. It is not therapy. It is not the woo-adjacent advice you’ve already tried. It is about getting you results.
$147.
Includes: personalized questionnaire review
+ 45-minute private call
If you don’t leave with clarity, you don’t pay.
If you complete the questionnaire and our call and you don’t leave with a clearer picture of what’s actually in your way and what would move it — I’ll refund your $147 in full. No questions asked.
Just email me within 48 hours of our call: laura@laurajurgens .com
I’m confident in what this delivers. But I’d rather give your money back than have you walk away without something genuinely useful.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does the payment work? You choose your call time through Calendly and pay $147 at checkout. You’ll receive the questionnaire link immediately after booking. Complete it before our call.
What if I decide I want to work with you after the call? If it seems like a good fit, I’ll share what that looks like. The $147 is not applied toward a program — it’s a standalone service. But you’ll have everything you need to make a clear, informed decision.
Is this confidential? Yes. Everything you share in the questionnaire and on the call is held in strict confidence.
What if I’m not sure whether this is right for me? That uncertainty is exactly what the Diagnostic is for. You don’t need to know whether you’re a good fit before you book — that’s what the call helps you figure out.
Do you work with couples? The Diagnostic is designed for individuals. If you’re navigating something as a couple, book individually first — the call will clarify whether couples work makes sense as a next step.
Do you work with men or trans/non-binary people? Yes. The Diagnostic and my coaching practice are open to people of all genders. My practice is trans-affirming.
More questions before booking? Email laura@ laurajurgens.com