You’ve come to the right place if you’re:

• Frustrated that one person always wants sex more than the other
• Tired of feeling rejected, pressured, or disconnected
• Disappointed that hormone treatments didn’t help (that’s completely normal)
• Worried your sexual desire differences mean you’re incompatible
• Ready to work on this even if your partner isn’t

Here’s what I know about libido mismatch:

• It affects couples of all orientations and ages
• Hormones are rarely the whole story
• Most doctors and therapists have limited to no training in desire issues 
• This challenge is almost always solvable with the right approach
• Even one person making changes can transform the entire dynamic

As a desire-arousal specialist and host of The Desire Gap Podcast, I’ve guided many individuals and couples through the pain of sexual desire differences to happier, more satisfying intimacy using practical, evidence-based methods.

My approach is:

• Free of blame or shame
• Focused on real solutions, not Band-aids
• Effective whether your partner is on board or not
• Somatic (body-based) and grounded in research
• Confidence-building

Libido mismatch is solvable. Most people just need the right tools and perspectives to bridge desire differences and rebuild genuine intimacy.