You’ve come to the right place if you’re:

• Tired of feeling broken, pressured, rejected, or disconnected
• Frustrated that one person always wants sex more than the other
• Disappointed that hormones didn’t help (that’s completely normal)
• Worried your desire differences mean you’re incompatible
• Ready to work on this even if your partner isn’t
• Not ready to give up on your relationship

Here’s what I know about libido mismatch:

• It’s not your fault—and it’s fixable
• It affects couples of all orientations and ages
• Hormones rarely solve it
• Most doctors and therapists have limited to no training in desire issues 
• Even one person making changes can transform the entire dynamic

I’m Dr. Laura Jurgens, desire-arousal specialist and host of The Desire Gap Podcast. I’ve helped hundreds of individuals and couples transform desire differences from a source of pain and disconnection into opportunities for deeper intimacy—using practical, evidence-based methods that actually work.

My approach is:

• Free of blame or shame – no one is broken
• Does NOT pressure the low-libido partner (that only makes things worse)
• Gets you on the same team quickly so you can solve this together
• Teaches the intimacy and communication skills you were never taught
• Effective whether your partner is on board at first or not
• Proven to work when therapy, hormones, and quick fixes haven’t

Libido mismatch is solvable. You don’t need identical sex drives to have a fulfilling intimate life—you just need the right tools, perspective, and support to bridge your differences, unlock your authentic desire, and build genuine intimacy together.