You’ve come to the right place if you’re:

• Tired of feeling broken, pressured, rejected, or disconnected
• Frustrated that one person always wants sex more than the other
• Disappointed that hormones didn’t help (that’s completely normal)
• Worried your desire differences mean you’re incompatible
• Stuck overthinking sex instead of enjoying it
• Wondering if ADHD is affecting your desire
• Ready to work on this even if your partner isn’t
• Not ready to give up on your relationship

Here’s what most people don’t know about desire gaps:

• They affect 80% of couples—you’re not alone
• Most therapists lack specialized training in desire issues
• Medical providers can’t address the emotional and relational aspects
• Hormones rarely solve it (and that’s completely normal)
• Gaps lead to major relationship ruptures without intervention—but with the right help, these issues are highly solvable.
• Even one partner making changes can transform the entire dynamic

That’s exactly why desire coaching exists. I work with individuals and couples to close the desire gap—even when only one person is ready to start.

I’m Dr. Laura Jurgens, Desire and Arousal specialist and host of The Desire Gap Podcast.

I help couples close the desire gap through The Desire Gap Bridge™ Method—a somatic, body-based approach that gets you out of your head and into connection.

The Desire Gap Bridge™ Method:

• Works with both partners equally—no blame, no shame
• Uses proven somatic techniques (not just talk therapy)
• Gets you on the same team quickly
• Effective even if your partner isn’t ready yet
• Teaches the intimacy and communication skills you were never taught

I’ve helped hundreds of individuals and couples transform desire differences from a source of pain into opportunities for deeper intimacy. I also train therapists and coaches who want to better serve their clients with desire issues.