How to Stop Taking Sexual Rejection Personally

How to Stop Taking Sexual Rejection Personally (drawing of person with anxiety)

If you’re the higher-desire partner, this one’s for you. When your partner says no to sex and you immediately spiral into “they don’t love me,” “I’m undesirable,” or “our relationship is doomed”—you’re making their experience all about you. And while I understand why (sexual rejection hurts), this response creates a massive problem. When you catastrophize […]